My sister is being hounded by this guy on a message board. He has even found out her name and address and is assuming her identity on one of those boards where you discuss movies etc. I can't believe this is happening to her. Then again, it is possible.
I don't think there has been any serious identity fraud. He/she hasn't opened an account somewhere else or done any other kind of shenanigans. AS OF YET. I would hate to see her get some other trouble from this. Like, thank God her name is not the only one out there. There has to be someone else with her name in the world somewhere. [there is]
I've been trying really hard to keep myself busy, or else I'm going to curl upon my sofa and just be a depressed loser. Not that being a depressed loser isn't incredibly sexy, it's just that I already have a line of depressed ladies a mile long waiting outside my door for a little bit of my time. I'M A STUD!(kidding)
Ultimately, moving across the country sucks. And not just because you're away from everything you know. I am fortunate (or unfortunate enough, I'm not sure yet), to move to a place where I have some kind of support system in place already. So when that support system changes, even a little bit, that becomes incredibly difficult to deal with. I just want to be normal. I want to have a normal life again.
Does it get easier when you are far away from your troubles? It feels like people treat you better when you are talking to them from far away. Things were easier with me farther away because there was a little bit more distance between me and my own feeling.
That being said?
They can fucking suck it up.
I'm here now, I live here now and they will either accept it and get over it, or they can eat shit.
This "identity theft" crisis is just another thing on my plate.
There's no nice way to tell people you love that as weird as this is for them, it's infinitely weirder for me and I'm the one who needs support right now.
My sister can be emotional suckage. It seems like when something crappy happens to HER it is the rest of us who have the problem. She is too emotional and doesn't always handle things very well.
It could just be me trying to ward off what is going to most likely be soul crushing depression, but right now I'm starting to lean towards angry, and I don't like it.
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